How should I react in this situation and overcome my initial agression burst!!! :(?

Hey guys...today I was using the public transport (in a bus).So I'm with a girl and she's crazy laughing all the time, speaking a bit loud I'm also like that so we just create fun and laugh loudly...then one boy/man(about 24y.) just said really annoying- Excuse me but noone has to listen to your bullshit early in the morning.Yes he said bullshit in a really annoying for me tone.I just looked at him and said accept my appologizes...and inside i was just...omg...such an agression...i just wanted to kill that ***** for that!!! Plus I think I am right here in the situation because all I do is to have fun + his tone was really bad.....So I just tought all the options and the best one was to say I'm sorry, but i don't feel right like that, i still have inner issues with myself for that situation!! Next time it happens I think i'm gonna say f*** off and just start the fight..HELp...